Why I Write Stories Featuring LGBTQ+ Characters

Dale Thele
Jul 24
3 min read

Updated: Aug 7

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In today's literary landscape, representation is more important than ever. As a writer, I find great value in crafting stories that feature LGBTQ+ characters. This commitment arises not only from my desire to reflect the diversity of human experiences, but also from the profound impact such narratives can have on society. In this blog post, I will explore the reasons behind my choice to include LGBTQ+ characters in my stories, emphasizing the significance of representation, authenticity, and connection.

There's an old saying that writers are often told: "Write what you know." As an out and proud gay man for over fifty years, I draw on a wealth of personal lived experiences in my writing. Some of these experiences are positive, while others are more difficult. The world is not made up of sugar-coated rainbows and sparkling unicorns; in reality, life can get messy. I strive to incorporate this complexity into my stories — the good, the bad, and the sometimes ugly aspects of life — while maintaining a positive outlook, without turning my characters into overly simplistic "Pollyanna Sunshine" figures.

The Importance of Representation

Representation is essential in literature because it allows readers to see themselves reflected in the stories they engage with. For many individuals within the LGBTQ+ community, discovering characters that resonate with their own experiences can be both empowering and validating. By writing LGBTQ+ characters, I aim to contribute to a broader tapestry of narratives that showcase diverse identities and experiences. When readers encounter characters who share similar struggles or triumphs, it fosters a sense of belonging and understanding. This representation not only affirms individual identities but also educates those outside the community about the complexities of LGBTQ+ lives. It serves as a reminder that love, struggle, and resilience are universal themes that transcend sexual orientation and gender identity.

Embracing Authenticity

Writing authentic LGBTQ+ characters involves exploring the real-life experiences and challenges faced by individuals within the community. I believe that authenticity is essential to storytelling; it creates relatable narratives that resonate with audiences on a deeper, more meaningful level. By incorporating genuine experiences into my work, I aim to challenge stereotypes and promote empathy among readers, regardless of their sexual orientation.

To achieve this authenticity, I actively engage with LGBTQ+ voices and narratives, drawing on my own experiences. This enables me to portray characters who feel real rather than relying on the caricatures or tropes often perpetuated in mainstream media. My commitment to authenticity not only enriches my writing but also ensures that my characters are multidimensional individuals with their unique journeys.

Fostering Connection Through Storytelling

Storytelling has always been a vital way for people to connect with one another. By including LGBTQ+ characters in my narratives, I strive to create spaces for dialogue and understanding—environments where readers can confront their biases and misconceptions. Through shared experiences depicted in fiction, we can challenge societal norms and promote acceptance. Additionally, stories have the power to inspire change. When readers connect with LGBTQ+ characters on an emotional level, they are more likely to empathize with the real-world issues faced by these communities. Whether it's dealing with acceptance, navigating relationships, or confronting discrimination, these narratives can ignite conversations about social justice and equality.

Conclusion: The Journey Forward

Writing stories that include LGBTQ+ characters is not just a creative task; it is a deliberate choice aimed at promoting representation, authenticity, and connection. As a gay writer dedicated to inclusivity, I understand the responsibility that comes with this choice—to tell stories that uplift marginalized voices while challenging existing stereotypes. In this changing literary landscape, we must continue to advocate for diverse representation across all genres. By embracing these narratives, both readers and writers can help shape a future where every individual’s story is told and celebrated.

Call to Action

I invite you to join me on a journey toward greater representation in literature. Whether you are a writer seeking inspiration or a reader looking for new perspectives, consider exploring books that feature LGBTQ+ characters. I encourage you to share your thoughts on how these stories have impacted you or recommend your favorite titles in the comments below. Together, let’s celebrate diversity through storytelling and continue to foster an inclusive literary community.

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